Love
Written by Sue-Ann on Thursday, February 14, 2013
The Word of the week – February 14, 2013
Thanks everyone for watching the show this week. It is an honour to assist you through the Divine in resolving your problems. I appreciate all the positive feedback so much.
The word of the week is… Love
I chose love because of what is happening in a couple of days. Thursday is Valentine’s Day! Which means…. hearts and flowers and chocolates….for those of you who wish to acknowledge it. It is a happy day for some and the saddest of days for others….It is truly the one day in the year that romantic love smacks you in the face. No matter where you look right now it is a reminder of what is coming. So if you have someone saying they “forgot” they are living under a rock because reds hearts and cupids are hanging everywhere as a reminder. For those of you who are looking for love and say bah humug to Valentines it is just another day to ignore dealing with the problem. If you have watched this show you have seen for yourself that love life is one of the biggest concerns for people. Where is it and how do they find it and when will it happen. When you are living without a romantic love and desire it more than words can express that bone aching need to find that special someone takes precedence over everything else. Heart ache is just a part of the human condition. We learn a lot about life and ourselves through heart ache. We are all looking for unconditional love but before you can find it….. you need to achieve it. When I say that I mean learning to love yourself unconditionally will help you define what unconditional love will look like when it finds you. With that thought though I have to take you back to personal responsibility. You need to love yourself first. I am not talking about the love that is built purely on ego whereby you are trying to convince the world that you are lovable. I am talking about the basic ability to be able to look at yourself in the mirror and say the words…..”I love you” to yourself. For those of you who have tried that you know what I am talking about when I say…it is very interesting the emotions that come up when you give yourself over to the experience. It’s simple to do and reveals a lot. All the things that are emotionally preventing you from achieving it will come to mind and that is when the work begins. That work is individual and can be very revealing and freeing at the same time.
So….I am asking that you consider using Valentine’s day as the beginning of a new you. That it will be the first day of the rest of your life when you make the decision to love you….to love you unconditionally and if you are having difficulty feeling that then choose to make a commitment to yourself to do the work to find out and acknowledge all the wonderful things about you. When you can truly acknowledge love for yourself then you will be able to accept the love of another. How does someone love you if you don’t know how you want to be loved?